Sunday, June 8, 2008

Sex and the City: Examples of the Perfect Proverbs 31 Women?


ChristianityToday.com has a review of Sex and the City that was almost more outrageous then it was a good review of the movie. I understand that the website is going to have someone watch it (noticeably a woman) but that such statements as:

"And, like the TV series, the film offers much that will resonate with singles—and yes, even Christians—who see themselves not just as a demographic in a Barna poll but as sexual beings who wrestle with balancing loneliness and a desire for romantic love with a commitment to purity and platitudes like "true love waits." (And waits. And waits.)"
and
"They, unlike many Christians, don't insult my intelligence. Instead they speak to the complexities of relationships in a postmodern age—addressing baby lust, the mommy wars, sexual temptation, dating outside your "class," commitment-phobia, the reluctant desire to be rescued by a man, and the simultaneous fear that you'll lose your own hard-won identity in the process. Yes, materialism and hedonism abound. But so does a messy wrestling with complex new realities of life that I wish I saw more of in Christian circles."

pass as "ok" is really depressing for me as a single guy who doesn't believe "TRUE LOVE WAITS" is a platitude. I have to admit I was shocked reading the review because I was apparently dumb enough to believe that a Christian girl would find no interest in seeing this movie! I am just really dumb founded? I understand girls aren't turned on the same way a guy is but the movie is entitled SEX AND THE CITY. You are watching other people, from my understanding of the review, having premarital sex, committing adultery, threesomes and every other sexual abomination besides lesbianism! What shocks me even more is that Christian girls would believe that these four women in the TV show/movie are ROLE MODELS for singleness struggles? I would have no problem with stating that these women are the Harlot in Proverbs who entice men from the pursuit of Lady Wisdom! Yeah, those harlots may have some understanding, but last time I checked they weren't exactly role models for how to pursue a pure relationship with either a man or God for that matter!

So, I haven't seen the movie, and undoubtedly some will bring that up in an objection. I understand. I just can't believe we even need to really bring this up? And the same goes across the board! What are we accepting people!

3 comments:

Jessica said...

Yeah, I thought it was pretty shocking. I can't even watch the television version without feeling uncomfortable--I can't imagine what the R-rated movie version is like!

A couple other blogs have also covered this. I enjoyed both posts.

http://solofemininity.blogs.com/posts/2008/06/discernment-consumption-and-sex-and-the-city.html

http://defendingcontending.com/2008/06/06/christianity-today-magazine-gives-sex-and-the-city-3-out-of-4-stars/

The second one includes Christianity Today's defense of the movie review.

Charlotte said...

Any girl, Christian or otherwise, who looks to the women of Sex and The City as role models needs a good talking to. And maybe a smack upside the head.

Judy said...

Well, this Christian girl doesn't want to see the movie. I can't believe that review was on the Christianity Today website. It sounds like they were almost being positive about the movie. Disappointing.

"Enter by the narrow gate. For the gate is wide and the way is easy that leads to destruction, and those who enter by it are many. For the gate is narrow and the way is hard that leads to life, and those who find it are few." Matthew 7:13-14